Is swingers dating really cheating? Part of this depends on whether you are single or not. However if you are single often you are the other man or the other woman in the orgy, wife swapping session or threesome that you have agreed to take part in.
The fact is that many people who are into swinger dating are legally cheating which means they are having sex outside of an already established relationship with the partner’s permission. Couples who live this way are often described as living the swinger lifestyle.
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Is Swingers Dating Cheating?
The only way that swingers dating works for some couples is if they make some kind of agreement that makes them both adhere to a certain number of boundaries. This kind of thing also gets incredibly personal and what is right for one couple may not be right for another. For instance in a threesome the wife may not be allowed to kiss another person but it may be all right for her to have oral sex.
Then there are the swingers that have sex behind their partner’s back anyway. Usually this is permitted but the rule of thumb is that if you can’t tell your partner what you have just done sexually with someone else then it means that you have cheated.
A popular type of swingers dating is called fluid monogamous. This means that partners can fool around with other people as long as there are no bodily fluids exchanged. One of the reasons that this is such a popular agreement is that it helps minimize the risk of contracting a sexual disease of some kind.
In order for swingers dating to work there has to be a very strong trust bond in the relationship of the swingers. As it is all about breaking rules it is important to respect what rules are left. Also in order for this to work the couple has to have periodic conversations with each other to make sure that it succeeds for both parties.
Still another issue is the matter of WHO is acceptable as a sex-dating partner. There may be certain types that are unacceptable. For instance it is common for a woman not to want her husband to have swinging sex with someone who looks like his ex wife or even someone who looks like a younger version of her. Some swinging couples even end up encountering their exes or relatives in these orgies and this may be a no no for some people.
Without trust swinging sex is just a series of casual sexual encounters and it becomes no fun and meaningless. The swinging dating needs to be there to enhance the relationship and not degrade it in any way. Obviously if the swinging is hurting your relationship then it may be time to try something else for sexual excitement.
Basically if it feels like cheating then it probably is no matter how lax your relationship may seem to be when it comes to swingers dating rules.
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