A Quick Guide to Swinging


If you’ve ever wondered about the world of swinging, it’s time to give it a try. The fear of rejection is what holds most people back, but in reality there’s nothing to worry about. It’s easy to meet other couples who want to explore their sexuality with you and your partner while having fun at the same time. Here are some tips:

Don’t be afraid of rejection

  • You will be rejected by people at some point in your life.
  • It’s ok to be rejected!
  • How do you deal with rejection?

Get to know people first

You may feel shy or awkward at first, but you’ll get used to it quickly and most people are kind and understanding. Once you’re comfortable, remember that only you can decide what is right for your body and mind. If a situation doesn’t feel right for any reason at all, trust your instincts and say something! If someone crosses boundaries with you (and this does happen), speak up immediately so the problem doesn’t escalate into something worse.

Remember: no one gets hurt if everyone has fun! Be respectful of other people’s boundaries—especially if they say no—and always check in with how others are feeling before doing anything intimate together. You’re likely going to get asked a lot of questions about yourself because swinging parties are about getting to know new people in an intimate setting—remembering this will help put everyone more at ease. And finally…if anyone gives off any red flags or otherwise makes you uncomfortable in any way (including just being boring), let them know they should talk with another couple who might be more compatible with their interests instead!

Take your time. There’s no need to rush!

There’s no need to rush! Take your time and enjoy the experience. The more you get to know people, the more comfortable you will feel.

Set the mood

Before you start, make sure the room is warm and cozy. Soft music is a good addition to the mood, as are candles or other lighting. If you’re feeling adventurous, try adding some incense or a few drops of essential oil to the air. This will give your guests an added sensory experience!

If you’ve never been to a swingers party before, consider starting with something light like coffee or wine (or both). The idea here is to get relaxed and ready for some fun!

Be upfront about your limits

It’s important to be upfront with the other party-goers about your boundaries and limits. This can feel intimidating, but it’s the only way to ensure everyone has a good time. If you’re not sure what you’re comfortable doing, ask someone else who has been to similar events in the past or check online for advice. No matter how well you know your partner(s), it’s always best if both of you know what each other wants out of swinging parties before attending them together. There will always be some risk involved in meeting new people; don’t let that keep you from having fun! If any situation makes you uncomfortable or freaks out, leave immediately—it’s better not to take risks when it comes to your own physical safety or mental health (and no one needs an STD).

It’s not as hard as you think it is.

Swinging is not for everyone, but it is a lifestyle choice that many people have successfully adopted. Swinging requires a certain level of self-confidence, open-mindedness and comfort with your body and sexuality. You must be prepared to make mistakes along the way, but also know when to ask questions and say “no”. If you do find yourself in an uncomfortable situation during your first swing party or event, remember it’s OK to leave!


Swinging is a great way for couples to explore their sexuality and get closer together. It’s not just about sex, but about bringing people together in a safe environment where everyone feels comfortable sharing their desires and fantasies with others who are also willing to share. The best thing about it is that there will always be new people coming into the scene so there’s never a shortage of fresh faces!

Dogging tips for beginners

Dogging is completely different from going to a sex party! For a start, you don’t need an invite, simply find a suitable location that you know will be popular with doggers in the UK and turn up! But if you want your evening to be a success then you really need to know the Dogging basics:

Dogging is a very informal activity but that doesn’t mean there are no dogging rules so best to follow this advice and feel comfortable that you won’t make any mistakes or behave behave badly!

Dogging is enjoyed at night and a lot of the locations are usually family areas in the daytime. If you do some basic research online you will discover various local spots and when the best times to visit are. If you attend at the suitable times then you won’t get into trouble with the law, neighbours or with visiting families.

You should always that you are clean and fresh beforehand and you have taken the correct items with you such as baby wipes, issues, lubricant, condoms and maybe some warm clothing. You should also dress appropriately, if you are female maybe wear a skirt with no underwear for easy access and minimal fumbling in the dark! Remember, you are outdoors so it maybe muddy or wet, keep this in mind when choosing footwear.

When you arrive at the location you will need to give a good indication to other doggers that you want them to join you or if you just want you or them to watch. It’s very important that you always respect the privacy of other doggers and look for their signs before you take any action. If you are staying in your car then flashing your headlights or leaving the interior light on is a popular indication to other doggers that you are there to play. Another popular indication is a rolled down window or open door so others can get closer and join you if required.

Above all, your personal safety is paramount. Always put your wallet and mobile phone away in the glove compartment; never leave anything lying around on the car seat. If you are worried privacy or repercussions then then it is always best to use a sex contact site like BritishSexContacts.com to find other doggers. So, to sum up, keep safe, do your research, know your limits, try new things if you feel like it, respect others and you will have a great time dogging in the UK!